I know a few men who have killed,one of them lived in the same house with me, under my care, I know another man who is on preventative detention. I had a neighbour who was a killer. I have stopped at least two potential murders. One of these was a woman who was killing a man. Perhaps I should say people who kill. Most of these people that is the murderers were known already to the authorities, some for petty crime, others for more serious offences. I was only surprised by one of these incidents.
All of the men bar one exhibited one trait, that is they had a grand sense of self entitlement. All of their victims were failed by the authorities and when I say victims I also mean those who were left behind as well as those who died. In one case this man’s parents had done everything in their power to get help for their son, however he found himself being looked after by a carer who believed all he needed was love and attention. The care giver stymied every opportunity to hold this man to account, eventually he brutally murdered two elderly people. He said he wanted to know what it felt like to kill somebody. I believe he is still in prison 20 plus years after his crime. He had racked up 66 convictions before he killed. His siblings were all OK, good members of society and so were his parents, however he was adopted there is something pathological about him and he is a consumate con man who uses religion as his biggest tool, he is a menace to society.
Another murderer I knew had a caregiver who protected him from consequences and then crossed the boundary from caregiver to lover. A wannabe gangster with a lover twice his age. Again multiple convictions and a propensity to violence, I threw him and his mates out of church one day as they began a brawl.
Another man was a near neighbour, he had been in a psychiatric hospital and deemed well enough to go home to the horror of people around him. Three days after he got out he cut the throats of his partner and children, three lives taken, a familiar story in the field of mental health. Outcomes driven by economics not safety. No professionals were held to account, something that is also familiar. As the say there is something rotten in our system… To be continued.